Orly has hit adolescence.
She’s full of energy, eager to explore the world and try out everything … and has very little common sense. She is also fearless and a little too eager to test boundaries and live on the edge.
I work from home, so I am not always available to play. I’m working on some arrangements to get her tired out — regular dog walks or hikes with a lucky someone else, play dates with the neighbors’ dogs, things like that. And I frequently offer treat toys, snuffle mats, and games of “find it,” where I hide little boxes with smelly, yummy treats inside and she and Cali use their noses to find the treats. It’s not enough.
All that adds up to a dog who bugs Cali.
The most egregious behavior occurs when we’re playing outside. Orly will launch herself off the deck and run, full-speed, toward Cali … and tackle her. Or race after Cali when Cali is racing after a tennis ball … and grab Cali’s tail or her leg and tug. Hard.
I step in each time this happens and put Orly back inside, but the lesson is not sinking in. I also let Cali out without Orly and throw the ball, while Orly looks on, sadly, from behind the screen door. Again, she’s not making the connection.
What would make the connection is a correction from Cali. A well-placed, sincere warning. But Cali is too nice. She just rolls her eyes and looks to me for help.
I could just keep them separate, but that’s not what either of them wants. They do love to play together, and Cali often initiates play, whether it’s a game of tug, wrestling, or racing around the yard together.
I’m going to call in reinforcements. The young male dog next door. The puppy who lives behind us. Koala, who is coming for a visit soon. Dogs who, like Cali, want to play with Orly but who, unlike Cali, are likely to set and enforce boundaries.
The combination of playmates who establish ground rules and additional activities to tire Orly out just might be the magic we all need. I’ll let you know!
2 thoughts on “Leave Me Alone!”
Dora is the same! She rolls her eyes at me when a young boarder tries to eat her dinner, but does nothing to stop her.
Your Orleans and Cali sound a lot like my Koda and Kloe. Koda although now 4 is sometime relentless with he older sister Kloe, who is six. There are occasions when Kloe will school Koda as she is bigger and stronger. But usually Kloe just acquiesces to Koda’s bullying and moves on. But history does repeat itself to some degree because Kloe, when a pup, did the same thing to her big Sissie Kali. With those two though there was a big enough age difference -7 years- that Kali did establish some boundaries for her little sister. It would be helpful if your Cali sent a message or two to Orley but some dogs just don’t have that in them. Good luck with your sweet pups, they sure are pretty!